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"A family located in north London seeks an exceptional and qualified instructor to guide their most junior child on his initial journey to growing into an British gentleman."

Upon seeing this advertisement, you might naturally skip the wording "beginning" as simple a turn of phrase.

Yet, it could be the crucial aspect of this unusual job advert, as it seeks to find a teacher for a 12-month-old.

Numerous of submissions have now been received since the unidentified family advertised their call for the £180,000 per year tutor, who has to be "someone very special".

Over the last few weeks, the listing has gained interest in the press, with numerous wondering why?

Innovative Idea

The CEO, chief executive of a global tutoring firm, which is helping the family in their search, said that in spite of early doubt, he considered the plan "far sighted", and "innovative".

When he consulted the family, he noted they understood the unusual aspect of their requirement, and how early in age their son is.

Nevertheless, they stated that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had held off until their elder sibling was five, and by that point "cultural conditioning had already become established".

But what did the family indicate by "cultural leaning"?

It's "all-encompassing", the expert replied. "How you eat, the manner you speak".

He stated the firstborn had picked up "very nuanced, body language" from the family, and had assumed their cultural habits. The family told him they did not want history to repeat itself with their new baby.

The strategy: To bring in a UK tutor, who should speak with RP, to shape the baby right from the beginning.

Subtle Influence

"Much of the education at the outset here is rather acquired indirectly," stated the expert.

It's through this natural absorption that the family are expecting the child will pick up the British traits they wish to impart.

He said the tutor had to be somebody who attended "the right kinds of schools – comparable categories of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The tutor just has to be the right kind of person, they'll be performing things they may not realize they're doing, just naturally," he commented.

Cost Not Relevant

The family informed Adam the chosen tutor should ideally also have understanding of or enthusiasm in riding, skiing, artistic pursuits and musical activities so as to influence the child in a diverse set of passions.

More than that though, he explained the family wanted the tutor to enrol the child on a selection of courses so the child would be "pony-riding and learning an tool by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's perspective, guiding their son develop into a "English gentleman" will bring about achievement and provide access.

"Considering the pros and cons of that, because it's definitely a social class indicator," he comments.

But, notwithstanding all this tutelage in "English culture", would the child adopt alleged cultural bias from the globally influenced family he is raised by anyway?

"Yes", said he. "The family realize this may not work, but they've simply adopted the perspective of, 'we should try and we'll proceed as early as we can', because the cost of it is not a concern," he said.

Overly Optimistic

There are some in the private teaching field who share similar concerns.

An education leader, chief executive of an educational organization, who also offer private tutors, wrote that "the development of adopting dual cultures, or actually, discovering oneself, is something that must be lived into, not engineered."

The expert wrote that he had moved from the Far East to the Britain at the age of 7 years old, and had been brought up experiencing and living dual heritages. He went on to be educated at a prestigious UK institution.

"The idea that a single person can act as a representation of English culture, an individual who can somehow transfer the attributes of a British gentleman upon a one-year-old child, seems to me idealistic and unrealistic," he stated.

"In my experience, having a typically UK tutor from babyhood will will not automatically create the goal they want.

"I did not have such a tutor, and yet I have been privileged enough to enjoy several of the opportunities they desire for their son."

He stated: "The truth is, cultural identity cannot be imposed from the outside influences; it must be selected, and it must originate internally."

Acquiring Englishness

Certainly, Britishness is something the CEO hopes can be educated – and sold.

"In my view the situation that the global community regards us in this regard is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating